2013-04-25, 01:43 PM
Seeing two of my best friends fight is not a pleasant thing to witness...
Both of you are equally wrong, equally right. It's crazy, guys, watching you two go at it, because at one point or another it's all just going to turn into mudslinging
Unless it already DID.
I feel like throwing something. This is insane. Actually insane...past the point of making sense anymore. Everything either one of you says, the other one counterpoints it. With something. Sometimes it's not even necessary to counter it. It just happens. I'm not pointing fingers because both of you do it.
Boo. You need to stop with this whole self-harm business. I need to tell you this, because you're much better than self harm. Honestly dear, self harm can lead to some pretty serious crap, and the last thing I want you to do is kill yourself over this. Everything has simply been spiraling out of control and you need to stop pulling your hair, ignoring meals, etc. That's not going to go anywhere good, so you have to promise me you won't do it, no matter how ANYONE makes you feel.
When people tell you that you blow something up to be dramatic, you have this habit of being overly defensive. Do NOT say anything you'll regret...do NOT. Do not DO anything you'll regret, do not SAY anything you'll regret, and most importantly, don't HURT anyone that you'll regret hurting. I know exactly what it's like to be a teenage girl. I know. We like to blow things up and be dramatic. I've done that. But sometimes you'll need to pull back the reins and look at life through a bigger looking glass. Is it worth it to say? Don't speak out of anger. Quick to think, slow to speak. I'm not accusing you of anything, I'm just offering my opinion.
Meta. Sometimes, you're stubborn beyond belief. It's normally a good thing, your opinions on what's right/wrong aren't easily swayed. You're one of the most forgiving people I know, but maybe this is too much. You know what it's like to be surrounded on all sides. I know you do. I also know that you know exactly what it's like to regret something, because I see it in you when you need to vent. I'm proud to be here for you, but mercy is a key point here. It's obviously fine to correct someone. I'll repeat what I said to Boo. You've got a habit of proving you're right...defending whatever point you're saying. And you can just look up and read Boo's paragraph I wrote, but maybe looking at the scene through a bigger looking glass isn't such a bad idea...I'm not accusing you of anything, I'm just offering my opinion.
I love you both, and if I hurt you in any way, I'm so sorry, I did not mean it at all...you're both like family to me. Please don't take it the wrong way.
Both of you are equally wrong, equally right. It's crazy, guys, watching you two go at it, because at one point or another it's all just going to turn into mudslinging
Unless it already DID.
I feel like throwing something. This is insane. Actually insane...past the point of making sense anymore. Everything either one of you says, the other one counterpoints it. With something. Sometimes it's not even necessary to counter it. It just happens. I'm not pointing fingers because both of you do it.
Boo. You need to stop with this whole self-harm business. I need to tell you this, because you're much better than self harm. Honestly dear, self harm can lead to some pretty serious crap, and the last thing I want you to do is kill yourself over this. Everything has simply been spiraling out of control and you need to stop pulling your hair, ignoring meals, etc. That's not going to go anywhere good, so you have to promise me you won't do it, no matter how ANYONE makes you feel.
When people tell you that you blow something up to be dramatic, you have this habit of being overly defensive. Do NOT say anything you'll regret...do NOT. Do not DO anything you'll regret, do not SAY anything you'll regret, and most importantly, don't HURT anyone that you'll regret hurting. I know exactly what it's like to be a teenage girl. I know. We like to blow things up and be dramatic. I've done that. But sometimes you'll need to pull back the reins and look at life through a bigger looking glass. Is it worth it to say? Don't speak out of anger. Quick to think, slow to speak. I'm not accusing you of anything, I'm just offering my opinion.
Meta. Sometimes, you're stubborn beyond belief. It's normally a good thing, your opinions on what's right/wrong aren't easily swayed. You're one of the most forgiving people I know, but maybe this is too much. You know what it's like to be surrounded on all sides. I know you do. I also know that you know exactly what it's like to regret something, because I see it in you when you need to vent. I'm proud to be here for you, but mercy is a key point here. It's obviously fine to correct someone. I'll repeat what I said to Boo. You've got a habit of proving you're right...defending whatever point you're saying. And you can just look up and read Boo's paragraph I wrote, but maybe looking at the scene through a bigger looking glass isn't such a bad idea...I'm not accusing you of anything, I'm just offering my opinion.
I love you both, and if I hurt you in any way, I'm so sorry, I did not mean it at all...you're both like family to me. Please don't take it the wrong way.
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